If it's small, was that all?

Let’s imagine, you have met the man of your dreams. He is gorgeous, has a great career, comes from a great family, and adores you; basically you could not have designed a better man for yourself. He is too good to be true! Now let’s imagine you were the perfect lady and waited until marriage (or at least until a serious committed relationship) to “do the do” so your heart is in the relationship. Your man, let’s call him Chad, has set up a perfect evening because “tonight is the night.” Anticipation has been building all day, candles are lit, music is playing, pants come down and UGH! What the waka flaka is that? You knew it was too good to be true. He has a little itty bitty microscopic _____ (you guys are smart you get the picture).

What is the next step? Does this have to be the end or do you become an advocate of “it’s not the size of the wave; it’s the motion in the ocean”? How important is the size of a man’s little man’s package if his big man package is perfect for you? If you are ever faced this situation I encourage you to ponder a few things before you make a decision:

#1: How do we even know it is small? Women were not made to have an abundance of sexual partners. Assuming, that all females were very strong-minded, selective female’s size would never be an issue because we would not know what to compare against.

#2: Would you trade having a smile on your face 90% of the time because you refuse to even experience what he is working with?

#3. All of us women were not blessed with a booty or boobies but we all have unique personalities and characteristics that make any man who catches us LUCKY. What if his one determining factor for talking to you was, “You are everything I want in a woman but I can’t get over the fact that you have size A breasts.” Pretty shallow, huh?

Just a couple of things to think about. Only you know what satisfies you at the end of the day. Oh, I guess I should make a disclaimer, huh? I know from experience how brutal people are so let me say this post is not personal for me. I just got to thinking about it when the Ocho Cinco vs. Stoudamire pictures surfaced.

"Does this picture change how you felt about me?"